Has anyone had problems with wedding RSVP's? - messages put wedding cards
I have my wedding invitations, there are about 3 weeks and 140 over 15 who replied! Now there are a few close family, I think it will have certainly there, but not yet responded, the event. I do not know if they have guests or what? The left one week, but I'm so nervous that I was planning this big thing, and it's like 30 PPL. People normally do not RSVP and still? The family of my friend is more than half off, and no one answered, but they all appeared at the wedding of his sister last year with a period of 8 days! Is it so difficult to put a letter in the mail? If so, they can also do it on our website! It is very frustrating.
It would be bad taste to send an e-mail message or Facebook remind people to RSVP? I really do not want to draw 100 people, 2 weeks before the wedding. I have to do one million things already: (
Sunday, December 13, 2009
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Oh, yes!
People put off. This is the rat race in the world in which we live
We invited 235 people and 130 were able to attend the wedding:
130 / 235 = 55%
With regard to the RSVP, the 235 invited guests (these events are not mutually exclusive):
a.)
18 had to be reminded by email before the RSVP (7.7%)
b.)
10 had personally by telephone before the RSVP (called 4.2%)
c.)
2 should be visited at home, before you confirm your presence! (0.9%)
D.)
Not receive 1 pair (B) the invitation by e-mail (but could go after the phone call that I made)
e.)
Among the 38 guests of the city, which invites us to have 6 (15.8%) visit
or 32 / 235 = 13.2% of the total population, could not participate.
If the answers to the time they should have, my advice is to begin to pull some teeth. Start to send reminders via e-mail, call, even personal visits.
Good luck.
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I go through the same honey. My results have left a week, please send a message to all of them, they wait for a call or an e-mail them until the last minute because we, the girls busy in the last minute, the more stress and more work. It sucks, we have to wait until the end, to terminate any last-minute preparations. Go for it. Congratulations and good luck to you. :)
Are you anywhere near the answer "when your card?
Most of my responses came through the week of my reply by date. Some came later. Many had to call / email / Facebook. Some people honestly do not know whether they can participate in addition to very close to the event.
I think everyone has a few stragglers, within the time limit or to RSVP.
The best thing to do would be to name the people. Sending a message in Facebook will be published in May as a passive-aggressive because it is difficult to know what your audio online.
Less than a week to answer you the date, you should not be started by phone or in writing to the people. If you no answer to date, then your fault if you never go back. Some people do not yet know whether they come or funds not yet come.
Ahh .. Non-responders. I'm glad they are not only in mining and families of my husband!
My husband actually has an e-mail to friends saying that although he knew that was a lot of them, we also need to know you and welcome all guests on our list. He ended by giving your RSVP. Try doing that with his family that his mom or dad spread the word its part of the family that you really need a fairly accurate and it is important to send the RSVP card.
I want to skip the Facebook message and sends an e-mail instead. It is a bit more serious:) Good luck!
Many just last week. My response deadline is Monday, and we still have (20 RSVP about 30 people). It was very stressful week, we missed half of it! But this week really flowing fast.
I want the people to answer the current contact details, are technically not final until after this date, I will not look obtrusive. But I know that I'd like to start phone calls the day after the due date! We need to know that it is not unreasonable to ask about the specific date.
They have a few phone calls, everyone does, but you have to do alone. We talked with our parents, uncles and aunts and friends who have not responded, they said called the day after the court and the information next week. Simply contact our friends who have not responded.
We invited 140, and at first we have the obvious answers (parents, brothers and sisters again) in the first week and then very slowlyThat, like 1 or 2 a week. We have to respond each period of 5 weeks, and some people have almost all the time.
I've heard that sometimes people who do not come easy to answer, but I can not imagine that one day that is more like just because it does not answer a kind of rude, and I believe is that people will just assume "Of course I'm going." But did all 6 of my father's sister (and partner) to my Bridal Shower, told how she was excited about the wedding, and they would "me for marriage" even though I go to receive any of the answers to 2 days!
You may not have much to do, the response time. Just get together a plan to do the calls and to recruit family and entourage to do so.
Yes, I had the same problem. I think it's the same for every bride. In fact, I believe, is more aggressive than call, because they put people on the ground. I would prefer Facebook or e-mail, especially because you have a wedding site because it can add a link. I do not want to wait until after the date either. Instead, we must say that I will be invited and not in the mail lost hope. Then just say that I hope that news of them soon, or have something. I do not think the family would think, they are aggressive, very grateful to remember because they're so caught up in everyday life. My mother sent an e-mail with a link in this way, and in 3 days I received more than 40 responses online. It's totally frustrating, but good luck.
This is very common. So we had a buffet, so that those who have not responded can absorb. You can send e-mails, but do not expect too much. Sorry, but it seems that you and your family are very inconsiderate friend. If you do not how many people are feared to be at the front desk and tell them they can not eat and then work with the food supply to see about changing menu. I really need to worry that their wedding day.
This is very common. So we had a buffet, so that those who have not responded can absorb. You can send e-mails, but do not expect too much. Sorry, but it seems that you and your family are very inconsiderate friend. If you do not how many people are feared to be at the front desk and tell them they can not eat and then work with the food supply to see about changing menu. I really need to worry that their wedding day.
This is very common. So we had a buffet, so that those who have not responded can absorb. You can send e-mails, but do not expect too much. Sorry, but it seems that you and your family are very inconsiderate friend. If you do not how many people are feared to be at the front desk and tell them they can not eat and then work with the food supply to see about changing menu. I really need to worry that their wedding day.
I had a big problem, therefore, had to call them and ask my MILF, ask to call your family and friends around, and my mother had called to our side of the family. My wedding is next week and I had my account for this purpose, three times and then by my grandmother as a "man comes, not even on the list, or said they never came.
It is so difficult to answer yes or no to # participate and write the name in a reply card. Already addressed and provided for! Probably the most frustrating, The Wedding Date. I am sure that next week you get a lot, and some people who know you know that you think you may not need to call only one family, and ask yourself some.
I had a big problem, therefore, had to call them and ask my MILF, ask to call your family and friends around, and my mother had called to our side of the family. My wedding is next week and I had my account for this purpose, three times and then by my grandmother as a "man comes, not even on the list, or said they never came.
It is so difficult to answer yes or no to # participate and write the name in a reply card. Already addressed and provided for! Probably the most frustrating, The Wedding Date. I am sure that next week you get a lot, and some people who know you know that you think you may not need to call only one family, and ask yourself some.
"Has anyone had problems with the wedding RSVP?" Probably everyone who was married! =) I understand your frustration. People can be so impolite! This is not so difficult - the RSVP are usually already stamped and addressed anyway. And it's too complicated to each call. What is the RSVP date? I say give him a week after the RSVP (for this purpose in the e-mail) and use it as your final score. Then there is absolutely no reason not to make calls. Buy a pizza and recruit some of your wedding (they're here to help you ...) and their parents. Leave us some calls, too!
What Facebook ... Wait until one days after the date RSVP to say and then be sent individual messages (create a group) and something like:
") Hey (name), how are you? (Name of husband and I sent him an invitation a few weeks ago and never heard of you. RSVP yesterday's date. You think coming to us?" I need to know (at a time - until a week after the first RSVP), so that we can get to know the chef. "
I say no to a Group B / C people will invite their friends to be angry. One might think it bad taste - but have no room to talk, but who were rude and inconsiderate, the time limit.
Do you plan enough food for the people of more than 5% of participation in this number has been confirmed.
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